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Live life to the fullest
Jennifer's Beauty Portraits by Fen by felicia
25
Jan 2013

Dear friends , here are the five things,  I wish i knew, when I was turning sixteen,  the days when I said goodbye to toys and dolls, and said hello to make up and boys. 

1. Follow your dreams, they know the way. I believe God, the dream maker have planned seeds of dreams in everyone of us. When we are young, discover your gifts and talents. The most fullfilling life if you can do what you love for the rest of your life. So you hardly cannot tell the different between working and playing. 

2. Love your parents and treasure them, and make them proud.
3. Treasure your best friends.  As you walk your path of life, you will meet people everyday. Most are simply met by chance. But, some are gifts from above, and become special friends. The ones who will stay with you forever to share your life. 

4. Travel the world and make countless of friends, pick up at least one foreign language. What you see, the places you travel, the people you meet, the friends you choose will help you grow and discover who you really are. Flourish your knowledge. Be Curious. Don’t be afraid to ask question. 

5. Fall in love. When we are young, we sometimes misslead love and infatuation. Falling in love is like no other feeling in the world. To have someone to look forward to every waking hour, and smile when falling asleep. When you are in love, suddenly your Blackberry ping sounds so romantic, not because of the sound, but who sends you the message. The emoticon smile sent by him comes alive and makes you smile ear to ear.  The love songs made so much sense to you. it’s amazing feeling, but it is important to know the different between love and infatuation. It is all started with feeling high over hills.

But these what I have learend in life.  Love stays. Love is something that takes time to grow and grows stronger over time, where nfatuation is like a bomb that goes off and then is gone. Infatuation is all about the moment, about attraction and desire. Infatuation feels like a magic-spell; it’s out-there. It is when you intensely feel Love towards another. It’s mostly all about how YOU feel. The person will seem perfect in every way. You think about them non stop. Just thinking about them makes your heart start pounding. You get so excited when around them. “Infatuation is chemical. Obsession is all about bodily chemicals and neurons firing and thoughts flitting in and out of your mind before they have time to settle.  Love lives in the heart and moves slowly, evoking warmth and smiles.”

Love is about the future and security. Love is mature. When you’re in love, you feel strong, full of life and happy. You feel secure and beautiful. With infatuation, you’re full of anxiety and worry. You want them, but fear you might lose them. Or fear they might disappoint and be dissappointed. You fear a lot of things. With love, you have no fear of anything, because you’re secure in the arms of the one you love. Knowing He or she loves you still no matter what. 

Love is patient . Time will prove love. Infatuation is about getting through today and hoping tomorrow will be good.

Love is secure. Love is knowing your heart is for another. Love means you accept each other as whole beings. Together you are make each of you, individually better.

Remember this, true and real Love begins with first finding yourself, cause only if you re happy with yourself will you be able to embrace the other person just as he/she is. And you will find true love more easily. if its meant to be it will be! Without drama, it wil happen and you will make your happily ever after even better than the fairly tales. 

So Friends, before saying YES to datings, it is good to use both of your heart and your common senses. Wait, pray and make countless of friends before you decide becoming exclusive to someone. You are worth waiting for, you are born to be loved and love πŸ™‚ 

To Jen, thank you for trusting me to capture your sweet moment πŸ™‚ I really enjoyed and loved the photo session to the bone. I wish you an amazing journeys in every chapters of your life. Happy Birthday, Pretty πŸ™‚

xoxo,

Fen πŸ™‚  

 

 
 
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